Thinkin hard on a tiry evening. . .

Everyone thinks that marriage should happen only between a man and a woman..Here they think of it only in physical terms...i.e man needs a woman or vice versa. We miserably fail to think it in terms of emotions where in one needs a partner to share ones feelings. Marriage is a word that has deep meaning in it. It means sharing a true bondage for a lifetime. This bondage could be with anyone or anything, be it human or animal. A partner for life can be the profession you have chosen, a pet dog or cat, or even an inanimate thing that could make you move ahead amidst all the crap of this materialistic world! It is true that a man and woman should be physically satisfied but it can happen only when there is complete surrender that blossoms out of pure love. If it is not so we are never going to enjoy anything in life with that partner. It is sin to get committed to someone for a lifetime through marriage and then not keep up to that committment. Though problems might seem to be passing clouds in a married life, for some individuals enlightenment of the fact that they can never reciprocate feelings back to their partner would have dawned upon them at some turning point in life even before getting married. Everything is a phase. People who are hard hearted could suddenly turn the opposite and VICE VERSA. However the traits in their genes when they were born or rather when they were inside their mother's womb would never be replaced by another trait or traits, try as hard as they might. But change occurs and maybe some are comfortable with it and some may go back to the old ways. It all depends on what kind of life they want and how they feel in that life. There are cases where they are drowned and lost in emotions and risen in life in becoming the opposite. Life is teaching new things daily. It is experiences that make us move ahead in life and make us take decisions in life. Emotions are there in everyone and it is the key factor to living a healthy stable life but it can be related to anyone or anything in this world, not necessarily to someone in the opposite sex through marriage. Marriage is the union of two souls..But remember music has soul, animals have soul, every belief has a soul it it..Its not just human beings that have soul..! This does not mean that I am against marrying! It is the duty of every writer to bring out the truth to the society which is unfortunately, decaying without realising it!