Monday, March 2, 2009

Totally Solutionless . .

When you cannot give back the love that you recieve from your loved ones what do you do? Sometimes you are born with the insensitive nerve and there is no point in trying to change cos you cannot change what was bestowed on you when you were just a developing embryo in your mother's womb...There has been no history of anyone succeeding against the law of nature. It does not really matter to you till you become an adult and you realise the truth... when things go wrong at home and parents give in, to make children happy, they think they have allowed the children to triumph..The children when they find themselves being loved incessantly even after being the cause of so much disturbance find themselves groping with the passive silence and the willing resignation of the parents along with their lovely treatment in order to make up for the child's anger. This can ruin the child's self confidence of being able to love its parents. The child feels that it is not capable of giving back even a quarter percent of what it recieves. This can be soul wrecking for the child though parents do not want or expect anything back! But from the viewpoint of the parents it can be justified that they are doing the right thing. That's what they are cut out for..for pouring love onto their kids, not expecting anything in return. It gives much pain to them when they see that their child is not turning towards them even after showing so much love. This clash is prevalent in almost all households but the sad fact is that there is no solution for this. But its completely normal, so dont screw up your lives guys! This is for all those who cried to me last evening!! Ok ok. . .don give me that look. I just did not find anything to blog on. Joblessness at its heights! Chow!

2 comments:

Dhanaraj said...

Let me state my personal conviction: "Nothing can replace parental love". Many speak of God's infinite love. My experience of parental love challenges God's infinite love.
Final Note: i am not an atheist.

The wildwoods said...

I think thats what I also arriving at!! Im not here to debate between parental love and something else..This is to just bring some problems that happen in families..Sometimes we shld just get along without trying to get solutions!